Monday, April 26, 2010

Bible study and confidentiality?

In January, I am leading a bible study that will delve into some very private issues. I have taught it before and learned quickly that not everyone can keep their mouths shut and like to gossip(even when they are reminded EVERY week.) so I would like to have everyone sign a confidentiality aggreement - however, I am having trouble finding a sample of one.


Does anyone know where to find one?

Bible study and confidentiality?
I have taught and directed some abuse and addiction recovery groups. I insist on when the personal things are shared that it be done in Men with Men and Women with Women. If you are having a mixed group of both, maybe you are starting off on the wrong foot. There are some things that just should not be shared in mixed company. If you are talking about all women then you have some who have some issues and should not be allowed to be in the group if they insist on gossiping. Let it be known up front. Those in the group will appreciate the strict concern for their privacy. The piece of paper will not fix anything without backing it up. Tell them because of the personal nature of this class if it comes to your attention that you can not control your gossip outside this room , as mediator and instructor you have no choice but to privately dismiss them from the group. I am being serious here. Its that simple.
Reply:Here it is.





However, I warn you that legalism is not the way to ensure behavior. If someone breaks confidentiality, I doubt you will be suing them in court for damages.





I think the best way is to get them to understand the consequences of their potential bad behavior, and apply the silver rule.
Reply:This is REALLY not a good idea.


The reason being, written agreement or no, the temptation is laid there like a net before the participants.


This is one certain way to create dissension and problems between people.
Reply:I understand what you're asking. During the course of the bible discussion private matters come up that should remain private. It's admirable you want to try and keep a handle on things. It might not work though, human nature being what it is.





Why don't you start here. http://www.ilrg.com/forms/confidagree.ht...





It's not too expensive.
Reply:Er... I'm pretty sure the bible is in the public domain. So I don't really see why you would need to sign a confidentiality agreement.
Reply:It would not matter, those predisposed to gossip will do so %26amp; yu will end up in court with them more then teaching.





Sounds cynical but it is true.


even reminding them that the Bible warns against Judging others will not stop some people!





Gossip is one of many predispositions to judging.
Reply:Confidentiality agreement for bible study? That is plainly bizarre. What part of the bible is confidential? Is this some sort of Scientology study group?
Reply:write one up
Reply:When you share and gossip about yourself you leave youself open for others to talk about you too....Do as I say not as I do?





Why would you expect anyone to sign a document for a Christian Bible study?
Reply:Why do you care if others hear your fairy tales about bible myths?


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