If someone in your bible study is pregnant, would you give them a small gift when their baby is born?

This woman is in my bible study group and I have only known her for a few months, and I wondered if I should be giving her a small gift (such as booties or a bib or something for her baby) when the baby is born, or just leave it and say congratulations?

If someone in your bible study is pregnant, would you give them a small gift when their baby is born?
I would think that it isn't expected by any means but if you like her or if it is just 'you' to give a gift then feel free...but I wouldn't go overboard or she might be uncomfortable with it. New babies are always a good reason to give gifts and unlike birthdays that come every year they only come once in a while (for most people anyway), so they are kind of a different situation.
Reply:Maybe a card with a simple verse regarding the gifts or joys of children would be sufficient. Or maybe the whole group would like to go together and get her a gift of practicalitly or a Bible for her newborn with its name on it - that is one we often do in our group.
Reply:I would assume that since she's in your study, that you care about her. Wouldn't you give someone you care about a gift when something that important happens in their life (no matter how long you've been a part of that life)? Even better, continue to give to/serve her as the child is growing up - she'll need all the help she can get. Not because you need to show her that Christians are/should be good people, not because it'll make you/her feel good and make both of you better believers, but because 1) you're obeying His word (on giving, on serving, on encouraging), and so 2) it's a great way to glorify Him. The other stuff just happens as a result of that.
Reply:I would givwe her a little something nothing real pricey it is just a gesture
Reply:well you ar enot obliged but if you want to be a blessing for this woman %26amp; her baby then God Bless you!
Reply:I would probably give her something small, but nice of course


What about a Baby's First Bible, you can get nice little ones ???
Reply:yes if your friendley.
Reply:it's always nice to give someone a gift. it doesn't matter if you know them well or not. it's the act of giving that shows how you care.
Reply:sure you can, if you're close, if not you can simply give her a card, or tell her congrats.
Reply:If you want to, you should. Don't feel obliged but I am sure she will appreciate the gesture. Maybe you could have a whip round and get something really nice from the whole group. May I suggest that you get something for HER rather than the baby. Loads of people will get baby things. I certainly appreciated having a small gift for myself. It's like baby overload and it was so nice that someone remembered me! I also had a basket of useful bits, things like cotton wool, soap, baby bath, etc. which I really appreciated. That was a gift from a group I attended.
Reply:Yes that would be a lovely thing to do thanks
Reply:i'd give her something. that's very nice. wouldn't you appreciate it if she did the same thing for you? she's in your bible study group...doesn't religious studying encourage things like being attentive and kind to neighbours and lending a helping hand? come on...
Reply:i would give a small gift or maybe bring them pizza or a box of chicken one night for dinner so they didnt have to worry about cooking with everything else going on
Reply:Ask her if she needs anything, and be willing, eager, and glad to help, for that is the Christian way, not giving of gifts which may or may not be wanted.
Reply:usually people give a small gift for the baby yes , even if they hadnt know them long its just a courtesy.


actually my grandmother had given someone someone at our bible study a small gift for the mother , it was a basket with a small box of tea and some chocolates with a lil card that had some good words of advice to the mother. :) it is fairly cheap but it is appreciated by the parents. hope this helps.
Reply:Oh, give her a little gift. Having a baby is a big deal.
Reply:Do what moves you. Otherwise why are you even studying the Bible?
Reply:If it is in your nature to want to give to others, regarless of how long you've known them for then go for it.


I love to give things to people, no matter how long I've known them, I've been working in this place now for 8mth or so and one of my co - workers is pregnant, anyway I don't know her too well, but still I wanted to get her something, so I bought her a small baby photo album, she loved it and says she can't wait to use it.


Go for it get her something, It will make both of you feel good.....
Reply:why not if it won't cost u a lot :]
Reply:BIBLE STUDY?!!??! HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAH.
Reply:You can give her a gift when her baby is born. There is nothing wrong with that. If she were to ask you to take her to an abortion clinic then you would be wrong. If she is single and not married if that's what you are getting at that is between her and God he knows how to convict and when people try its called condemn.What would the God of Love have you do.I wasn't clear on the realtion to the girl in your Bible Study being pregnant. What does that mean to you??
Reply:a simple card with a beautiful message would just be perfect. =)
Reply:I would say if you are happy for her you can buy a cheap but useful gift, but you are definitely not obligated
Reply:give her something and let her feel welcomed or as a token to tell her that u care about her.





I think that in a bible study group, we all should take care each other.
Reply:You should wait until after it is born, she will be busy while the baby is being born. Duh!
Reply:Yes, of course!
Reply:it depends on what kind of relationship you have with this person or ask other people in your bible study group what their going to do. me personally even if i don't get on with her quite well i will i would get her something even if it's small
Reply:its whatever you feel is right now since your in bible study god would probably say do whats is right. your not being mean, and you dont have to do what you dont want to do.But if i were god i'll tell you to do what is in your heart. youll be blessed no matter what
Reply:please do!it will even increase your bond of friendship!
Reply:A gift would be nice. But you dont have to. If you go to a baby shower you should give a gift. Give a family Bible with the kids name on the cover.
Reply:a chasity belt? ha ha, just kidding